Wat zijn de meest waardevolle dingen die iedereen moet weten?

Dat was de vraag die op Quora gesteld werd, en vervolgens ook werd beantwoord met een puntenlijst met inzichten/ideeën waar iedereen iets van kan leren. Wat weet je nog niet, maar heb je wel wat aan? Wat zijn belangrijke dingen voor je eigen ontwikkeling?

Vaak gaat het om ‘boerenverstand’, maar net zo vaak wordt er iets dieper nagedacht en gaat dr. Peterson iets verder dan de oppervlakte. Het eerste antwoord is natuurlijk een logische, theoretisch gezien. Maar hoe zit dat in de praktijk? In hoeverre geldt het dan nog, als je heel kritisch naar jezelf en je eigen handelen kijkt?

Hoe denk jij na over dingen die je nog niet weet? Deze antwoorden helpen jou in je eigen ontwikkeling.

De oorspronkelijke post staat hier, maar de antwoorden van dr. Jordan Peterson staan ook hieronder. Wij zijn benieuwd wat je van onderstaande punten vindt, en welke aanvullingen voor jou van persoonlijk belang zijn. Zijn dit voor jou de meest waardevolle dingen om te weten?

What are the most valuable things everyone should know?

  • Tell the truth. 
  • Do not do things that you hate. 
  • Act so that you can tell the truth about how you act. 
  • Pursue what is meaningful, not what is expedient.
  • If you have to choose, be the one who does things, instead of the one who is seen to do things.
  • Pay attention.
  • Assume that the person you are listening to might know something you need to know. Listen to them hard enough so that they will share it with you.
  • Plan and work diligently to maintain the romance in your relationships. 
  • Be careful who you share good news with.
  • Be careful who you share bad news with.
  • Make at least one thing better every single place you go.
  • Imagine who you could be, and then aim single-mindedly at that. 
  • Do not allow yourself to become arrogant or resentful. 
  • Try to make one room in your house as beautiful as possible.
  • Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today.
  • Work as hard as you possibly can on at least one thing and see what happens.
  • If old memories still make you cry, write them down carefully and completely.
  • Maintain your connections with people. 
  • Do not carelessly denigrate social institutions or artistic achievement. 
  • Treat yourself as if you were someone that you are responsible for helping.
  • Ask someone to do you a small favour, so that he or she can ask you to do one in the future.
  • Make friends with people who want the best for you.
  • Do not try to rescue someone who does not want to be rescued, and be very careful about rescuing someone who does. 
  • Nothing well done is insignificant.
  • Set your house in perfect order before you criticize the world.
  • Dress like the person you want to be.
  • Be precise in your speech.
  • Stand up straight with your shoulders back.
  • Don’t avoid something frightening if it stands in your way — and don’t do unnecessarily dangerous things.
  • Do not let your children do anything that makes you dislike them.
  • Read something written by someone great.
  • Do not hide unwanted things in the fog.
  • Notice that opportunity lurks where responsibility has been abdicated.
  • Do not transform your wife into a maid.
  • Pet a cat when you encounter one on the street.
  • Do not bother children when they are skateboarding. 
  • Don’t let bullies get away with it.
  • Write a letter to the government if you see something that needs fixing — and propose a solution.
  • Remember that what you do not yet know is more important than what you already know.
  • Be grateful in spite of your suffering.

Wat vind jij ervan? Bij Vision Forward zijn er in ieder geval al een paar goede gesprekken gestart, op basis van deze punten. De onbewuste overtuigingen die je momenteel nog hebt, kunnen misschien wel iets gaan verschuiven hierdoor.